Friday, October 11, 2013

Pee-pee Dance During Your Interview?

I do not know how to dress for this weather. It is starting to grow grey outside which is exciting and depressing. Back to the seasons!!! Now I know why my cousin wanted to switch lives with me. He went to school in Albany and I went to school in Orlando. We both wanted each others lives because I love New York and he loves Florida.
Now that I am up here in New York, he loves to tell me how miserable he is unless it is hot outside because he is still in New York. The first day it was cold and starting to feel like fall, he text-ed me asking me if I already regretting coming back to the northeast. Nope!! I love it. There is no place like New York.

This morning, I woke up cold, like every other morning this week. It was 56 degrees in my room. I have already thrown a comforter I made (the ones you place two pieces of material together and tie the ends all the way around), 2 blankets and a sheet on my bed which is still not warm enough. My dad says I have to go to Bed Bath and Beyond to find a nicer and warmer comforter. All I kept thinking was that I would be that girl walking around NYC with a ginormous comforter under my arm. Then common sense smacked me in the face and I realized (as I'm writing this) that I can go to the store and buy one after work in New Jersey and stuff it in my car.

One thing I have learned from interviews in New York (and pretty much anywhere else where the employees take their job seriously) is that the employer does not like seeing the interviewee with a lot of makeup, jewelry, and skin. I've learned that the simpler the better. I luckily don't wear a lot of makeup and I don't have any tattoos. My sister used to say I dress like an old person because I am very conservative with what I wear and never show cleavage or even my thighs. So I was born to go on interviews I suppose. But some companies are really offended by tattoos if you don't cover them up.

Finding a full time job is like having a full time job in itself. Researching all day long and applying for jobs takes a long time and it is not as easy as it seems. There are so many jobs out there you just have to either be there at the right place and the right time or just be an expert at researching. I constantly had to be reminded that there is a job out there for me. Just because the economy is not at its prime for job hunting doesn't mean your job isn't out there. Some people have it easier. They either know they want to go straight to grad school or have something lined up with their previous internship or family member when they graduate. Most people, on the other hand, don't.

I actually had many phone interviews before going on interviews in New York. A great phone interview experience was when I spoke with someone at Bloomberg for a job. This only was accomplished because my father used to work for the now chairman of a division in Bloomberg and my father contacted him asking if it was possible to set up an interview with me. It was a very exciting time but I made a lot of mistakes.
  1. I didn't know anything about Bloomberg (still not too sure about it because they are so huge and are part of many divisions)
  2. I did not investigate the company online very well to be able to answer some of her questions
  3. I didn't research about the people I would be speaking with whom had emailed me about the interview
 Some things I hope I did well
  1. Took notes
  2. Had my resume in front of me for reference
  3. Spoke confidently
In the end, I didn't get that job. I am very glad I didn't. There were better plans for me. I wasn't ready to leave for New York that soon. I wasn't supposed to have a job the day after graduating college. I am so glad and blessed to have spent the time I had with my family and friends before heading up to New York and finding a job. Technically, it was only a month break. But I had a great time. Being out of a job and having nothing to do can actually be really boring and not healthy. I was adamant about finding a job within the year because I didn't want to get used to the free time. On the other hand, I also wanted to enjoy it while I could. So here are some tips I suggest doing while on an interview, whether it is on the phone or in person.

  1. Take notes: always have paper and pen with you
  2. Have your resume with you
  3. Bring a portfolio (if you have one or a list of accomplishments you have achieved in the past)
  4. Have a list of questions you want to ask the interviewer when they are finished asking you.
    1. How would you describe a typical work day?
    2. How would you describe responsibilities this position would be responsible for?
    3. Is there potential for growth?
    4. How many people are in the company or office?
    5. What do you like most about working here?
    6. What don't you like and what would you change?
  5. Put your phone on SILENT (how embarrassing when it vibrates or rings while on the interview)
  6. Keep your hair out of your face
  7. Do not have cleavage or skin showing that can draw attention. (Even if you are on the phone, if you are dressed at least appropriately, you will feel confident and then you will sound confident.)
  8.  Make sure you use the restroom before going on the call or meeting (this sounds ridiculous but you don't want to be on the phone or in the interview doing your "pee dance" because you happen to forgot you needed to go earlier and were so caught up on the interview you never went. It's not attractive)
I am not perfect. I still mess up on interviews and I am glad I do! I have learned that for me, on interviews where I really don't care as much and I just am going for the experience and practice, I seem to do better and receive better feedback because I assume I act more like myself. The job I have now I didn't take as seriously as others because I received it from one of my staffing companies who I hadn't heard from in a while. I was just going to see what the company was and see what it was like. Now I couldn't be more excited to say I got paid!!! So thank you staffing company for getting my foot out the door. Go out there, don't worry if you make a fool of yourself the first few times and get angry at yourself. It will happen more than once I can guarantee that. If you don't get mad at yourself then you aren't trying hard enough. Because now that I have a job, I am trying to find a place to live that is affordable!!!

Good luck out there and never give up!!
xoxo

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